Chabwino, abale ndi alongo a theka ndi alongo sali pachibale nkomwe, kotero sichingaganizidwe kukhala chinthu choipa kapena chachiwerewere. Nzosadabwitsa kuti munthu wamkulu mnyamata ndi mtsikana, popanda zibwenzi nthawi zonse zogonana ndipo pafupifupi tsiku lililonse kukhala pafupi wina ndi mzake, mwadzidzidzi anakopeka pa mlingo kugonana wina ndi mnzake. Poganizira kuti mtsikanayo ankakonda (mnyamata ndiye palibe funso), ndikuganiza kuti apitiriza kuchita zinthu zamtunduwu nthawi ndi nthawi.
Ngati mtsikana wavomera kugwira ntchito ngati wantchito, amadziwa bwino kuti posachedwa adzakumana ndi tambala wa mbuye wake. Kukhala ndi ubale wabwino ndi kasitomala, mu ntchito yake, ndikofunikira kwambiri. Ndipotu iye sakana ndalama. Choncho m’kamwa mwake anatenga moyenera, ndipo anamukoka moyenera. Ndipo akumva bwino ndipo amakhala ngati mlendo. Ndipo simuyenera kuwuza mbuye wa nyumbayo za izi - tsopano wapatsidwa kale malangizo azinthu zowonjezera :-)
Kukonzekera kwabwino kwa kalasi, koma sizokhudza kuphunzira. Mnzake wa m'kalasi ndi wokongola pankhope ndi mawonekedwe, koma tchire izi mu thalauza lake ndi zonyansa pang'ono. Chitsamba chambiri. Nthawi zina mumafuna tsitsi laling'ono kuti musinthe, koma sizili choncho.